When you are in Affinity with someone or something you can say its like a click a fit a familiarity, good feeling.
It is the first step before Love
The most important relationship is with yourself. When you are good with yourself everything else falls into place.
Easier said then done right…..
When you can let go of energy that is not yours and be fulfilled with yourself, you most likely will be in a warm fun loving embrace with yourself. From there the world looks fairly easy and even it is not easy most likely you will find a way to make it work.
So how about those relationships with others ? When you are having fun and can embrace yourself (affinity with yourself) you will most likely see that your partner is not the one who is supposed to make you happy, that is your job (hint hint).
This also goes for your friends etc. When we put our fulfillment of happiness outward we are left with a feeling of loneliness and emptiness.
This Valentines Day how about celebrating YOURSELF first and then your love for somebody else.
If it is you yourself and you take yourself out, or pamper yourself do something special for just yourself allow yourself to celebrate YOU.
If you have a partner how about doing both. Celebrating yourself and your relationship.
Being in a celebratory state brings forth feelings of affinity and it also validates where ever you are at. And when you can do that it is easy to take steps towards your Goals…. well thats another topic and for now Happy Affinity Month, day hour ….. enjoy yourself, embrace yourself.